Debbie Mandel, a stress management expert, gives men advice about the age old question: How do you please a woman? What are the things that a man can do in order to increase a woman's libido and in turn make her more interested in having sex? Once a man is able to figure out the things that his partner so desires, she will respond and begin to feel more appreciated. The rest will be true intimacy and passion; worth more than its weight in gold.
Debbie: Now for guys who might want to have sex, and have an unwilling partner, let me tell you the best foreplay is helping out around the house. Go help her, do something kind for her. She says, wow he values me, he took out the garbage, he helped me with the dishes. Then start being a little more intimate, without the demand that this has to be anything. Give her a massage, put some chocolate on the bed like a hotel, put on some music, dance together, touch, give her a hug from behind. When you please her, it will happen much more often than you think. It's just a wonderful feeling that couples get; just show her that you care.
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